Being in the dating world is really difficult on someone with baggage as I have. It is challenging, emotionally draining and more often than not feels like you are giving a lot more than you are getting in return. I am not someone afraid to admit when they don’t know what the hell they are doing and recently that is exactly what I have done. My friend is a few years older than me and she has
I know, I know I have some fighting words in this title but before you completely dismiss this post stay with me a minute. This post was inspired by an article written by C. J. Pascoe titled: ‘Dude, You’re a Fag’: Adolescent Masculinity and the Fag Discourse. Thus, lets get the boring stuff out of the way and get this formally cited:
Pascoe, C. J. 2005. “‘Dude, You’re a Fag’:
I have moved and been in Detroit for two weeks now and that is just enough time for the ole life reminder of how hard moving is. The last couple days, and what really seem like hours, have been rough. I started a new job, moved and started school. Quite frankly I am terrified at how I will keep up. This is a lot of work and I fear I won’t be able to excel at it all.
Yet, among all the fear
I have been severally procrastinating packing for the last week or so. I’m within a month of moving and I hadn’t done a thing. Not organized a closet or packed a single box. Today was supposed to be my day to get a lot done to really get this packing thing moving in the right direction. Yet, I had no motivation to do it. I avoided it all day. First, I got up and went on a run. It
The collapse of my marriage and, the months that followed shortly after, certainly were not some of the most beautiful moments. They were really difficult. It was hard to lose my best friend and even for as “green” as it my have been, my life partner. No matter the conclusion there was a reason I stayed and we spent almost 9 years together. Those feelings have never left me and the respect
I was listening to another podcast and it got me thinking about emotion, you know one of my favorite things to talk about. I thoroughly believe that being in tune to our emotions makes us better communicators, lovers, friends, parents and overall better people. Anyways I digress, the podcast was talking about happiness and this goal that all of us try to achieve. We believe that if we just lose
First let me just say the universe is conspiring against me. Today was roughly around 92 degrees and I was so excited to get out of work, grocery shop and pack a small dinner to go pool side at the apartment. I prepped all my veggies and some fruit and then look out the window and my 90 and sunny day quickly turned into 90, cloudy and raining. Of course it did. I mean how often to I pack a dinner
I know that you are supposed to start resolutions at the beginning of the year but isn’t a resolution really just a goal? So, why not make a mid year one, I still have six months, right?
I have been listening to a lot of podcasts again lately and am particularly a fan of ones that make me laugh or ones that are good for the soul. Soul food where you can be educated on lessons others have learned
I am almost two year into being separated from my ex-wife and still feel like I am riding a bike with training wheels. When you have a dual income and in our case were fortunate enough to both have decent jobs we really weren’t ever struggling to have anything we wanted. At the time we felt differently but rather it was more that we couldn’t have the exact thing that we wanted. We could